Fascination & Close Relationships: Lecture #10 themes The underlying fascination nature, physical fascination, mate choice Close connections sorts of connections, sorts of affection (bleh)
Slide 2The underlying fascination BUILDING FAMILIARITY the _______ impact will probably become a close acquaintence with, date, & wed individuals who live near us the _______ impact the all the more regularly we're presented to something, the more _______ we assess it happens with novel jolts (e.g., outside words, faces)
Slide 3The underlying fascination PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS The Dove Campaign for Beauty
Slide 4The underlying fascination PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS we're one-sided toward the delightful: alluring understudies are seen to be more brilliant & more inclined to prevail in school Texan judges give bring down fines to appealing crooks wonderful individuals get paid higher wages
Slide 5The underlying fascination WHAT IS "Excellence"?
Slide 6The underlying fascination WHAT IS "Magnificence"?
Slide 7The underlying fascination WHAT IS "Excellence"?
Slide 8The underlying fascination IS BEAUTY OBJECTIVE? high _______ on appraisals of engaging quality: generally, men lean toward " _______ " physical make-up in ladies; ladies favor _______ men with " _______ " shape _______ is lovely: _______ appearances are alluring in light of the fact that they're _______ we look for facial _______ (indication of wellness & richness)
Slide 9The genuine Shannen The underlying fascination Shannen Doherty: A case of facial symmetry Shannen, carefully upgraded
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Slide 11The underlying fascination
Slide 12The underlying fascination IS BEAUTY OBJECTIVE? babies incline toward _______ confronts: gaze _______ at countenances appraised by grown-ups as being appealing
Slide 13The underlying fascination IS BEAUTY SUBJECTIVE? _______ in body embellishment: scarification, penetrating, tooth recording, inking are not rehearsed generally we have distinctive _______ body sizes: where sustenance is rare, _______ ladies are more alluring magnificence _______ change after some time: models today are _______ than before
Slide 14Eva Herzigova, 2001 35-23-35 (5'11") The underlying fascination Marilyn Monroe, 1953 35-22-35 (5'5")
Slide 15The underlying fascination IS BEAUTY SUBJECTIVE? judgments of magnificence change with the _______ : individuals turn out to be more delightful in the event that we _______ them men see their spouses as _______ alluring in the wake of survey _______ models we feel less appealing in the wake of review models
Slide 16The underlying fascination WHY ARE WE BLINDED BY BEAUTY? lovely individuals are _______ satisfying ______________ generalization the conviction that appealing individuals likewise have other _______ qualities alluring individuals do have more companions & better social aptitudes however don't score higher on _______ trial of knowledge, identity, or self-regard
Slide 17The underlying fascination we like other people who like us: _______ when somebody loves us, we'll tend to like them back in some cases, we like individuals progressively in the event that we need to _______ their warmth we like individuals who are " _______ ": social _______ e.g., "The Rules": men are more enchanted by difficult to-get ladies
Slide 18The underlying fascination _______ when your folks preclude you to date Bill, you _______ your flexibility to date who you need result: you need to date Bill significantly more
Slide 19The underlying fascination MATE SELECTION Buss (2003): ladies look for _______ , _______ stable men ladies are _______ in # of posterity they can have; subsequently, they look for men with _______ to bolster their posterity men look for _______ , _______ , _______ ladies in spite of the fact that sperm is modest, men are confined by their capacity to draw in ripe accomplices & to guarantee _______ of posterity
Slide 20Marriage #1 Marriage #2 Marriage #3 Age contrast: 3 years Age distinction: 17 years Age contrast: 28 years The underlying fascination
Slide 21Close connections ATTACHMENT STYLES _______ joined infants _______ when Mom leaves; _______ when she returns _______ appended babies _______ : cry when Mom leaves; frantic when she returns _______ : no response when Mom leaves/returns _______ connection styles impact our _______ sentimental connection styles
Slide 22Close connections Description Attachment Style % of populace I discover it moderately simple to draw near to others & am open to relying upon them & having them rely on upon me. I don't frequently stress over getting surrendered/about somebody getting the opportunity to near me.
Slide 23Close connections Description Attachment Style % of populace I am to some degree uncomfortable being near others; I think that its hard to trust them totally & to permit myself to rely on upon them. I am anxious when anybody gets excessively close, & frequently, cherish accomplices need me to be more cozy than I feel great being.
Slide 24Close connections Description Attachment Style % of populace I find that others are hesitant to get as close as I might want. I regularly stress that my accomplice doesn't generally cherish me/won't have any desire to remain with me. I need to blend totally with someone else, & this longing once in a while frightens individuals off.
Slide 25Close connections SECURE AVOIDANT ANXIOUS
Slide 26Close connections LEE (1988): Different love styles _______ cherish styles _______ (suggestive love) _______ (diversion playing, uncommitted love) _______ (kinship adore) _______ adore styles _______ (requesting, possessive love) _______ (handy love) _______ (other-arranged, philanthropic love)
Slide 27Close connections STERNBERG (1986): Triangular hypothesis of adoration 3 segments to love: _______ segment; enjoying & sentiments of closeness _______ segment; fascination, sentiment, sexual yearning _______ segment; choice to resolve to long haul accomplice
Slide 28INTIMACY Liking (closeness alone) Romantic Love (closeness + enthusiasm) Companionate Love (closeness + responsibility) CONSUMMATE LOVE (closeness + energy + duty) PASSION COMMITMENT Infatuation (enthusiasm alone) Empty Love (responsibility alone) Fatuous Love (energy + duty) Close connections
Slide 29Close connections HATFIELD (1988) _______ adore: seriously _______ ; finish assimilation in one's accomplice as per Schachter's ______________ , enthusiastic love requires: _______ excitement conviction that _______ set off this excitement e.g., Dutton & Aron's (1974) "Capilano connect" think about
Slide 30Close connections HATFIELD (1988) companionate love: less extraordinary more _______ , longer enduring based on _______ , minding, & long haul _______ after some time
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